Read the First Chapter of Triple-Yes! Rule

Most people waste months – or years – on people who were never right for them.

The Triple-Yes! Rule is simple: before you move forward with someone, you need 3 clear yeses to 3 questions:

1. Do they meet all of my Non-Negotiables?
   
2. Do they meet enough of my Negotiables?
   
3. Am I excited to see them again?

A Triple-Yes! means the foundations of a real relationship are present. Anything less is a warning sign you’re about to waste time.

The Triple-Yes! Rule becomes the decision rule you use after each step of dating – so you move forward with confidence.

When Good Enough Isn’t Good Enough

Many of us – especially in midlife – get caught in the “good enough” trap.

You meet someone who's kind, funny, attractive, and mostly lines up with what you want…except for that one thing on your Non-Negotiables list. And you think:

• “Maybe I can live without it.”
  
• “Maybe it’s not a big deal.”
  
• “Maybe it’ll change.”

It won’t. And you already know it!

This book is for people who want a deeply meaningful, long-term relationship with their forever person. If that’s what you want, then “good enough” isn’t good enough.

A Simple Rule That Changes Everything

The Triple-Yes! Rule does two things: It shapes how you think – and it filters who you choose.

After any date or interaction, you apply it:

• If you have a Triple-Yes!, you move forward
  
• If you don’t, you don’t move forward

It’s that simple.

It’s usually easy to answer the third question – whether you feel excited to see them again. That’s the spark.

The first two questions ensure the foundation is there – so you don’t mistake chemistry for compatibility.

This Isn’t About Instant Certainty

The Triple-Yes! Rule doesn’t mean you’ll know on the first coffee date that someone is your forever person. This isn’t Disney. Relationships unfold over time.

But if you don’t have a Triple-Yes! for the next step, you’re likely investing in someone who isn’t right for you – and delaying the chance to meet someone who is.

Protecting Your Future Self

The Triple-Yes! Rule is about protecting your future self.

Years from now, you’ll thank yourself for not settling—because you’ll be in a relationship that still earns a Triple-Yes! every time you wake up beside your person.

It’s also about energy. When you use a Triple-Yes! filter, you stop carrying around maybe-relationships that drain your time, your focus and your hope. You have more emotional and mental energy for the connections that actually matter.

What Comes Next

The Triple-Yes! Rule is simple. It’s logical.

And once you start using it, you won’t go back.

The rest of this book shows you exactly how to define your Non-Negotiables and Negotiables—and how to apply the Triple-Yes! Rule with clarity and confidence.

So you can stop guessing – and start choosing.

Ready to choose the right person?